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Learning From Our Mistakes
Romans 8 When we
consider the above verse, it seems to us as though it might not be 100%
true. Of course we understand all Scripture to be true and unerring, but
some times we just don't believe that the promise of Romans 8: 28 is for
us. We believe that our actions can negate the promise. This is not
exactly true. What is true is that we can refuse to receive the promise by
not loving God, and not being called according his purpose. His purpose
stated in vs. 29 is to be conformed to the likeness of Christ. (to be
conformed is an ongoing process). So, while we might refuse to receive a
promise of God, there is nothing we can do to negate any
promise of God. That’s the premise of this lesson. However, before we go
any further, let’s consider the greater context of Romans 8: 28, and what it
says to the believer. Romans 8 First of all the text tells us that we groan (suffer). There are a couple of reasons for this. We suffer because we have a sense of how wonderful life in heaven will be. Secondly, we suffer because we have all seen to one degree or another the ugliness that exists in this world.
Ecclesiastes 3
God has put the understanding of eternity
into our hearts. He has made everything beautiful in its time (and after
the beauty comes aging and death). And He has done it all in such a way
that we cannot tell when He is working, or just allowing things to run their
natural course. So for those of us awaiting eternity, these factors seem to
intensify whatever light and momentary inconveniences we experience here.
All is not lost however, since
God has given us the indwelling Spirit to help us through it all (Rom 8:
26). One way the Spirit accomplishes this is by making intercession.
Sometimes in my prayer, I may not know what to ask. Here the Spirit steps
in. I might even ask for a thing that is not in my best interest. Again
the Spirit intercedes. This benefit received in baptism along with the
forgiveness of sins and the salvation of our souls (Acts 2: 38; Mk16: 16).
This indwelling Spirit is our assurance that God is on our side. And “if
God be for us, who can be against us?”
This gives
us all great comfort when we’re faithfully following (being conformed to the
image of) Christ. What happens when I’m not so faithful? What about when
I’m disobedient? What does God do for me then?
Well, Romans 8: 28 is not the only
scripture with a promise. Hebrews 12: 6 says, “For whom the Lord
loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.”
God chastens (disciplines) us, particularly
when we’re unfaithful. In context, we’re told that nobody enjoys discipline
(duh!). But if we make good use of God’s discipline we can be
beneficiaries. We’re told that God chastens us because we are His
children. I think that this is interesting, because this is the same reason
given for the gift of the indwelling Spirit (Gal 4: 6). The scripture is
not clear as to how this chastening occurs, but I have some conviction on
the matter.
Sin has natural consequences in addition to
the eternal consequences of separation from the presence of God (hell). For
instance, if one uses drugs, they run the risk of addiction, disease, or
just plain doing something stupid like driving under the influence. If one
is a fornicator, they run the risk of unwanted pregnancy, sexually
transmitted disease and the like. These consequences are possibilities or
probabilities whether or not you’re a child of God. I have the conviction
that the child of God might be more vulnerable to some of these natural
consequences than others are. I believe that God uses these consequences as
one means of chastening us. Again, let me caution you that we cannot know
when God is causing a thing to happen or simply allowing things to continue
to there natural conclusion. The children of God may be more vulnerable to
the natural consequences of sin, simply because we’re not experienced
sinners. Whatever the consequences, if we endure them while retaining our
faithfulness in God (and renewing our commitment to serve Him faithfully),
we can be better Christians after the sin experience than we were
previously. This in no way is to say that our sin is the will of God. God
never has it in mind for us to sin.
We all make mistakes. We all sin. Sin
always has consequences. We all need to overcome. All of this makes us
groan. We’ve been kind of talking thus far about what God does at his end.
What can we do at our end to minimize all of this grief? Let’s examine
together a mistake that cost a man his life, and see what we can learn. 2 Samuel
6
Firstly, David was “on a roll” you might
say. He had been anointed king of Israel for some time. But during the
early part of his reign, King Saul was also reigning. King Saul is now
dead, and the throne is securely in David’s hands. David has also just won
a great victory over the Philistines. God engineered the victory, and the
strategy was directly communicated to David (2 Sam 5). David must be pretty
sure of himself and His relationship with God at this time. It’s these times of great certainty in our relationship with God that leave us vulnerable to making mistakes, and falling into sin.
1 Corinthians 10
Many of our Old Testament
lessons were written to teach us the vulnerability we have at the times that
we think that we are the strongest. God always provides a way to escape
temptation, but somehow when we get to thinking that we are “something” we
seem to stop looking for the exits. The way to beat temptation is to
escape, or flee from it, not face it head on. And this brings us to the
second point.
We’re vulnerable to mistakes and sin when we
put ourselves in a bad place. In my work for the local Cable TV Company,
one of the various titles that I held in my 23 years there was groundsman.
We called them grunts. They worked on the ground under the linemen on the
poles. From time to time a grunt would have to send a tool to the lineman
on the pole. It might simply be tossed if the tool was small, if it was
larger it was tied to a hand line and hoisted up. It didn’t take long for a
groundsman to learn that the wrong place to stand was directly under a
lineman. Linemen from time to time drop tools. If you’re right under them,
you’re likely to be injured. This was Uzzah’s problem. He was standing in
a bad place. If he had been somewhere else he wouldn’t have reached up and
touch the Ark.
How many sins are committed as a result of
Christians putting themselves in a bad place. 1 Corinthians 15: 33 states,
“Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.” We put
ourselves in a bad place when we choose the wrong friends. We put ourselves
in a bad place when we choose the wrong mates. We lie down with dogs over
and over again, and can’t figure out why we keep getting up with fleas. We
go to parties where everybody is drinking or doing drugs, and then we wonder
how we were overcome by the temptation to get drunk or to get high. It all
boils down to Christians being in places that Christians shouldn’t be, and
being in those wrong places for the wrong reasons. I understand that there
are times when we have little choice of where we are. But this is not
usually the case. Uzzah chose to walk alongside the ark, and it is usually
us that choose to be in these wrong places, at the wrong time, with the
wrong people, for the wrong reasons.
Finally, we’re vulnerable to mistakes when we
only consult God on the big things. David consulted twice with God when he
was battling the Philistines in 2 Samuel 5. However, when it came to moving
the Ark of the Covenant to Jerusalem, it was something that was so obviously
God’s will, that he never consulted as to the particulars of how he was to
accomplish it. This was a mistake, which David admits (we’ll have more on
that later). How we do a thing is just as important to God as the doing of
it. Consider the rules of worship (both Old Testament and New Testament).
Consider how offended that God was in Old Testament times that the people
began to offer sacrifices in the high places. Some of these offerings were
offered to pagan gods, but some were intended to honor Jehovah. God had
commanded that sacrifices be made in the Temple, or before that in the
Tabernacle. Any other offering was not acceptable. I’m sure that some said
that in Abraham’s day, he offered sacrifice anywhere he wanted. But under
Mosaic Law it was not commanded in any other way than at the Tabernacle.
It’s this very principle that causes us to be resistant to the introduction
of instrumental music in Worship service today. The New Testament commands
singing. Instrumental music is not commanded. Sure, it was OK in David’s
day, but it is not commanded so now.
God had commanded in the Law
of Moses that the Ark be borne upon the shoulders of the Levites, not on a
“new cart.” If David had enquired of God, he would have known this. If the
Ark was not on the cart, it would not have begun to topple. Uzzah would not
have reached up and been killed.
The lesson thus far has shown that much of
our suffering is a result of our making ourselves vulnerable by being proud,
being in a bad place, or not consulting God. But what can be done once a
mistake has been made? How do we recover? The first thing that most of do is just what David did. We get angry. Usually we get angry with God. It isn’t His fault. It didn’t take David long to take personal accountability.
1 Chronicles 15
David recognized that an
answer was not only available by asking God through prayer. The answer in
this case was in scripture. It usually is found in scriptue if we spend
enough time in scripture. It wasn’t God’s fault that David was suffering.
David had brought this upon himself and Uzzah by not consulting God’s word
first. Once we take accountability, then we need to seek forgiveness. Note in our text in 2 Samuel that after they had taken 6 paces they offered sacrifices. I believe it was an offering for sin. Certainly it was a humbling of David and the others before God. 1 Peter
5 Casting my
cares on God, including my sins, requires that I humble myself. Humbling
myself requires that I admit that many of my problems are created by me, and
I need God’s grace and help to escape. It’s too bad that we wait until
we’ve already fallen before we’ll submit to God. We already talked about
what happens when we think that we’re standing. If we’d just learn to
humble ourselves then, we might well never fall, because God is able to make
us stand (cf. Rom 14: 4). After I’ve sought forgiveness from God, the next thing is to forgive myself. Luke 9 Looking back means not to long for my past life. But looking back means not letting those things that are behind me influence the work ahead of me. Paul put it this way:
Philippians 3 Leave your
past sins with God and press on toward the goal. Now let’s
consider the lessons learned. It was not necessarily God’s will that Uzzah
perish. He was simply a casualty of sin. It
certainly was not God’s will that David sin. It is never God’s will that
anybody sin. I believe that afterward David was probably a better and wiser
king. But that was in spite of his sin, and not because of his sin. In my own
life, I gave my life to Christ in baptism when I was about 12 years old.
When I was about 19 years old, I took my life back. For somewhere between
10 and 15 years I did whatever I wanted to do. And at the end of it all I
was worse off than at the beginning. I knew that I needed to give my life
back to God. And somehow I now truly knew how that lost son in Luke 15 felt
when he said to his father, “I’m not worthy to be a son, just make me one of
your servants.” I believe that I’m a better Christian and a better preacher
as a result. But that’s in spite of my rebelliousness, and not because of
it. God was able to make it all work together for good in spite of my
rebelliousness. I sometimes wonder what He might have accomplished with my
life if I had co-operated with Him for that additional 10 to 15 years. Oh
well, that’s all behind me now.
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